this was a fun trip and a really cool experience. but if you want to go, first things first, bring someone you know you will not get mad at, no matter what they do. like, couples should not bring their significant others because this trip will make you break up. my sister and i hadn’t fought in nearly a month (verbal, not physical) and we were so sure we were going to bond over kayaking together. as you can see from the title, we didn’t. i’ve canoed plenty of times and i’ve used a paddle lots, and i thought i could lead and help my sister but noooooo kayaking is so different from operating a canoe. at first, when we left, we were paddling well but then i realized she wasn’t paddling efficiently which made us lag to the back of the group. i was kind of embarrassed but i didn’t say anything. i sat in the back and steered but my sister was getting frustrated at my steering and said that she was going to steer the kayak on the way back. this made me furious because she was half ass paddling and i was pulling us the entire time. mind you, this wasn’t even half of the kayaking trip yet. when we arrived on the beach, i got away from her as soon as possible so to not fight with even more. we ate lunch which was a pretty good roast beef sandwich ( i only wish is that it were hot) and snorkelled. the guides just let us do whatever we wanted which was cool but they were hanging out on their own which was not cool because human social interaction is fun (other than my sister because we were mad at each other). anyway, the trip ended and we were still mad at each other so moral is: do not bring a person you love on this trip. by the end you will detest them.
Response from Host
Sep 2019
Aloha Megan,
Your review of our Hanalei Blue Lagoon paddle and snorkel brought a chuckle.
For years we have joked, "families that paddle together...pray together" or that with paddling spouses/friends/lovers, a paddle may make or break a relationship.
Hope you two have "buried the paddle with the hatchet" and perhaps found a more neutral venue to share and to bond over with your sister.
Sisters are special.
Thanks for sharing.
A hui hou,