I misunderstood something Elf had told me, which was fine... but her level of frustration and the way she scolded me for it was not okay. I was so speechless and uncomfortable when I got off of the phone with her that I immediately texted her and told her that I didn't think we hit it off well and we would like a refund for the trip.
I was trying to take the high road and not be ugly, even though I was just yelled at like a child, so I told her the way she spoke to me made me very uncomfortable and I did not feel okay with being in a car with her the next day. She responded by calling me a "Karen". I Blocked her from my phone and had to spend the whole night worried if she was still going to show.
If you go on this trip, I recommend that you talk to her before your 24 hours is up to cancel. I messaged about talking sooner a couple of times and she would not talk to me until the evening before when my cancelation window was already closed. She denied my refund and I ended up paying for a trip we didn't even get to take. This was supposed to be a gift for my husband's 40th birthday.